11 Clear Signs that You Are Still Not Over Your Ex

1. Social media stalking

Signs You Love Your Ex

Are you constantly checking on your ex’s Facebook page for an update? Do you look through all his pictures to make sure he is not seeing another person?

Do you stalk every single one of his social media sites just waiting to see what he has to say? If this sounds like you, you are clearly not over your ex.

2. What do your friends say?

Your friends may know you better than you do. Your friends are the only ones who see who you truly are and they will know if you are over your ex or not. Are you constantly bringing up your ex in conversations that he does not belong in?

Are you constantly mentioning his name to see what your friends have to say? If your friends are telling you that you are not over your ex, they are most likely right.

3. Pictures

Most couples go through the phase of wanting to take pictures together constantly. I mean, obviously you want to show him off to your Facebook friends so you post pictures of you and your sexy man.

Once you break-up those pictures might need to be deleted. If you are keeping pictures of your ex on your Facebook page or any social media site, you might not be over him.

4. Are you sleeping with him?

Trust me, this happens more than you may think. When people break-up, someone will typically propose the idea of staying friends. In most cases, this is the worst proposal ever!

It is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to be friends with someone you have romantic feelings for and if you do dare to walk this path, you will probably find yourself sleeping together. Obviously, if this is occurring in your life, you are not over your ex.

5. Presents

Ladies love to receive presents from a boyfriend. It is completely normal. If you are keeping the presents that your ex bought you when you were dating in plain sight at all times, you are not over him.

When you look at those presents you will automatically be reminded of him, which may not help you in your journey of moving on. Put the presents away if at all possible.

6. The dreaded relationship status

Changing your relationship status can be one of the hardest things for some ladies after a break-up.

Laura H shared her story with me and she said – “It took me 45 minutes of staring and plenty of tears to finally change my relationship status on Facebook back to single. Clearly, I was not over my ex and you are not either if you’re experiencing the same thing.”

7. You cry when something reminds you of him

Of course, it is normal for the coffee shop that you met in or the restaurant that you shared your first kiss in reminds you of your ex, but if every song you hear and every place you go reminds you of your ex, you are clearly not over him.

8. You play dress up

This is especially common for women. You may only be going to the grocery store to pick up some eggs and cheese but you wear your cutest outfit along with super high heels and bright red lip gloss in the hopes that you might see your ex. Obviously this will become humorous in the future when your ex is completely out of your mind.

9. You find out where he will be and when

If you have been stalking his social media sites and have come across a post saying “At the beach in the Holiday Inn…” and you feel the urge to go find him, you are not over him.

Theresa has done this as well. One day she saw a Facebook post stating that her ex was going shopping with his brother. She leaped out of her seat, put her cutest clothes on and went to the mall because that’s the only place she thought he would shop. She never found him so use that as a reminder that you will probably only be wasting gas and time.

10. You still text your ex regularly

If you and your ex are texting regularly, you’re probably not over each other.  Sometimes it’s hard to get over someone when you’re still in contact.

11. You watch all of your ex’s favorite shows

Did your ex love Wheel of Fortune and Grey’s Anatomy and now you have to watch every episode (even though before you rarely did)?  This is a clear sign you miss your ex and might not be over him or her.

Getting over your ex can be extremely hard. After a break-up, you need time to heal and move on. If you have participated in any of these actions, you will know that your ex is still a big part of your thought life and you are not allowing yourself to move on.

Source: loveblab.com

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Get Back With Your Ex?

Have you decided to get back together with ex relationship? When the break up occurred, it was probably a bad time for you, so hopefully you have allowed some time to pass. Now that you are ready to get back on the horse again, deciding to get back with an ex is a normal feeling.

There are two considerations to make when it comes to choosing to get back together with ex: your feelings and their feelings.

How do you feel about the situation after the breakup? Have you managed to let the drama fade away, and are you feeling as if you can rekindle things without feeling stressed?bp3

How do you think your ex feels about the situation? Have you spoken to them or spent time with them recently? Before you can get back together with ex, you need to figure out what they think about the idea.

If you and your ex are on the same page about the situation, you can sit down and talk it through. Deciding to get back together with ex should be a mutual agreement, otherwise you are just stalking or bothering them.

If your ex does not agree with you on the situation, take some time away and let things cool down more. If he or she is not yet ready to rekindle things, that is not a definite no – Just let things calm down for a little longer.

Once it has been mutually decided that each wants to get back together with ex, you can begin the rekindling process. You should plan to do a lot of talking. Talking things through is the first step to preventing reoccurrence of the break up.

If the same conditions exist that caused the first break up, then your efforts to get back together with ex will be completely and fully futile. Why waste your time and effort trying to make things work if the same break up is going to occur in a day, week or month?

If you can eliminate the things that caused the stress, drama or break up the first time around, then it will be much safer for you to consider whether or not to get back together with ex.

If it is your ex that brought up the idea of getting back together, and you are not sure how you feel about the whole thing, be ready to do some thinking. There is nothing wrong with mulling over the idea for a few days before you take action.

Do not jump into anything you are not comfortable. If you do not feel like it is time to get back together with ex, then you need to take the time you need. Do not force yourself back into a harmful relationship. Not every relationship is meant to be.

Sometimes, deciding to get back together with ex can be a good thing, and sometimes it is better not to open closed doors. Ultimately, you and your ex need to come to the decision together through civil conversation.

Once you have decided and you wish to proceed to get back together with your ex then get the best resources that you can find whether it’s a counsellor, get ex back systems, etc. and then be prepared to take massive action to succeed with your decision!

Tell-tale Signs that Your Ex Wants You Back

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A break-up is the hardest thing to face, especially when you are in love with your girlfriend and cannot accept the fact that she is now your ex girlfriend.   Most men foolishly dive headlong into depression, start drinking themselves to death and wallow in self pity.  They send out desperate feelers and threats in the hope that their ex will feel sorry and rush back into their arms.

If you are in this situation, do not wear your heart on your sleeve.  Instead start working towards getting your ex girlfriendback.  Once you realize that she is the one for you and you cannot live without her, do and say the right things so that she herself realizes her mistake and decides that she wants you back.

Sending her love letters, asking her forgiveness, using people to state your case are all insane things to do.  Keep your cool, look back at the last few months when you noticed her attention straying and check if the fault was yours.  Once you identify the problem, engage yourself in activity of some sort and try to move on with your life.

You will begin to recognize signs your ex wants you back when she wonders at your silence and tries to get information about your reactions.  If she calls you and asks you to continue being friends, politely decline and put the phone down.  Go out with friends, if you must, not to make her jealous but to be in company so that you do not end up alone at home, brooding. Your friends will tell you, without you trying to spy on her, certain things, which are clear signs your ex wants you back.

When she finally realizes that she was wrong, you will find she is sending out feelers, which are signs your ex wants you back.  This time around, you are the man in command of the situation and you will make the rules.  Your very approach to the whole situation has won you the round and you are now happy and relieved to have her back in your life.